Home & Family
Utah is well known for being a family-oriented state, but more efforts and initiatives can be implemented to help Utah women and girls thrive in greater measure. This spoke is focused on healthy relationships and equal partnerships in home and family. A particular focus is in the areas of decision making and action taking, caregiving responsibilities, domestic and emotional labor, communication, and healthy sexuality. An important objective of this spoke is to encourage and support women and girls as individuals and in all types of families.
Spoke Leaders
Lisa Reeves
Community Advocate
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Lisa Stoddard-Reeves graduated from BYU with a BA in humanities is currently doing graduate studies in religion and society with an interest in women's issues in religion and society, healthy sexuality and mindfulness. She is the owner and co-owner of several companies in the state.
Tiffiney Christiansen
Board, UT Marriage Commission
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Tiffiney Christiansen is a Board Member for the Utah Marriage Commission as she is committed to preserving and honoring marriage. Her professional career has been in marketing and sales; she is currently the Vice President of Marketing at the Leavitt Group.
JaLee Clarke
Community Advocate
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JaLee Clarke has served in professional leadership roles with strategic initiatives, executives’ advisor, human resources, and advisor relations. She sits on the Board of Governors for Heritage Schools, a relationship-based, residential school for youth.
Bold Vision & Goals
To make Utah a place where more girls and women can thrive, the Home & Family spoke leaders and partners have crafted the vision and goals below. Spoke leadership and UWLP team members are currently working to collect baseline data that will assist in adding numbers to the changes we want to see by 2026 and 2030.
Vision: To ensure that all girls and women thrive in their homes and families through healthy relationships and equal partnerships.
Goals:
- Increase the percentage of Utahns who are aware of and utilize research-based resources that help them strengthen healthy relationships in home and family. [Metrics Forthcoming]
- Strengthen marriages in Utah to increase the number of children growing up in stable, healthy, two-parent families. [Metrics Forthcoming]
- Change Utahns’ agreement (understanding and perceptions) in the following areas: [Metric Dashboard]
- I have an equal voice in decision making within my home. [Increase women’s agreement by 5% by 2026 and 10% by 2030]
- I feel the load of domestic labor is shared equitably within my home. [Increase women’s agreement by 10% by 2026 and 20% by 2030]
- I feel the load of caregiving is shared equitably within my home. [Increase women’s agreement by 10% by 2026 and 20% by 2030]
- I value my own sexual satisfaction as equally important as a partner’s satisfaction. [Increase women’s agreement by 5% by 2026 and 10% by 2030]
- Improve the percentage of Utahns who perceive equal partnerships in the home, particularly within areas of emotional labor, communication, and conflict management. [Metric Forthcoming]
- Increase awareness, understanding, and education of the following: [Metrics Forthcoming]
- Shared decision making and action taking in the home (e.g., finances, childrearing).
- Caregiving responsibilities (e.g., children, aging parents, or other relatives).
- Healthy communication between partners and in family systems, including respect and conflict negotiation/resolution.
- Women’s sexuality and intimate relationship needs.
- Support the goals and efforts in collaborating spokes: Finance, Childcare, Domestic Violence, and Child Sexual Abuse.
Thriving Statement: Women and girls thrive when they experience healthy relationships and equitable partnerships in their homes and families.
RELATE Relationship Assessment
Free Courses:- ePREP – Prevention and Relationship Enhancement Program
- Smart Steps for Stepfamilies
- Home Run Parents
- Parenting the Love and Logic Way
- Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
- Stronger Marriage Connection Podcast with Dr. Dave & Dr. Liz
- UWLP New Research: Poverty & Homelessness and Home & Family
Partners
Working Group Leaders
- Book Club: Kara Church
- Domestic Labor: Alan Hawkins (Manager, Utah Marriage Commission)
- Legislative: Melissa Ballard (Representative, Utah House of Representatives)
- Research: TBD
- Sexual Wellness: Claire Gardner & Ariel Finlinson (Founder, Ladies Talking Love)
Get Engaged: Ways to get engaged include volunteering to be a leader or a member of a working group with family relationships (parenting, extended families, stepfamilies, single families, motherhood) or couple relationships (sex, money, communication, dating, domestic labor). Thank you for your interest!
Kaitlan Averett
Spoke Coordinator
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kaitlan.m.averett@gmail.com