First Lady Abby Cox
Empowering Educators, Supporting Students: Utah’s Vision for Inclusive and Innovative
Education
Fall 2025 Lecture Series
As Utah’s first lady, Abby Palmer Cox hopes to inspire Utahns to break down the barriers
that separate people from treating one another as equals. She is an outspoken advocate
for “getting proximate,” connecting through our differences, and combating the empathy
crisis our country is facing.
Born and raised in the small rural town of Mt. Pleasant, Utah, Abby grew up on the
Palmer family ranch, where the values of hard work and grit were a way of life. She
enjoyed a close-knit family with loving parents, two brothers, and seven sisters.
Both she and Utah Governor Spencer Cox graduated from North Sanpete High School and
Snow College. He followed her to Utah State University, where she earned her degree
in special education with a dual emphasis in early childhood and severe disabilities.
After law school in Virginia, Abby and Spencer returned to Utah to raise their family
in Fairview, a town of about 1,200 residents, located two hours south of Utah’s capital.
Throughout the seven years Spencer served as lieutenant governor, the family lived
in and commuted from Fairview. They now primarily reside in Salt Lake City at the
Utah Governor’s Mansion, but connections to their rural community remain strong and
a priority for the family.
Abby has always been active in her community through PTA involvement, church youth
groups, and service to the homeless. Abby enjoys riding horses, reading great books,
music, hiking, running, and family outdoor activities. She and Governor Cox, her high
school sweetheart, are the proud parents of four children — Gavin, Kaleb, Adam, and
Emma Kate.
Abby’s initiative as first lady is called “Show Up,” because you can pretend to care,
but you can’t pretend to show up! She uses this platform to champion projects related
to educator wellness, foster care awareness and support, expanded access to Special
Olympics Unified Sports programs in schools across Utah, and statewide service.
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